The working day following Samantha Schneider’s greatest good friend died of difficulties from breast cancer, Sean Corley came into Ms. Schneider’s life.
His arrival, in September 2016, was no coincidence.
“Two months ahead of I achieved Sean, my ideal mate instructed me that she listened to all the nurses chatting about the courting app Bumble,” said Ms. Schneider, 33, a study affiliate in the department of occupational drugs, epidemiology and avoidance at Northwell Wellness in Wonderful Neck, N.Y.
“She didn’t just advise I go on Bumble, she insisted,” Ms. Schneider claimed, laughing. “It was a lot more like a direct purchase.”
Ms. Schneider, who lived in Glenwood Landing, N.Y., fulfilled her promise, and swiped Mr. Corley into her globe. (Mr. Corley, now 32, is from Commack, N.Y., and is an functions supervisor for Softheon, a software corporation in Stony Brook, N.Y., that offers facts and routine maintenance to well being care companies.)
Despite the fact that they occur from quite unique backgrounds — he is Irish Catholic and she is the kid of a Chilean immigrant and a Jewish American of Russian descendant — they instantly strike it off with their shared love of the Television collection “Doctor Who,” hiking, comics, tea, board game titles and black cats.
“One of the greatest matters we have in frequent is that we are equally nerds,” Mr. Corley explained. “How several other ladies could I have located that enjoy taking in octopus and acquiring dressed up as various characters for Comedian Con situations.”
They achieved at Cafe Buenos Aires in Huntington, N.Y., for what Ms. Schneider known as “the very best very first date ever.”
“I could convey to he was a compassionate gentleman with a actual sense of household,” she said. “He was also very handsome and had a terrific sense of humor.”
Mr. Corly was also not brief on adjectives. “She was stunning, smart and a good communicator,” he said. “But most likely her biggest quality was how a great deal she cared about other people today.”
On the night time of her ideal friend’s funeral, Ms. Schneider stated she was feeling “quite upset and necessary a shoulder to lean on.”
It was Mr. Corley’s shoulder she sought, and on the somber travel to his residence, she puzzled if he could have been imagining about her, or emotion her discomfort.
She knocked on his door and gained her respond to in the kind of her favored blueberry pie, from Briermere Farms in Riverhead, N.Y.
“I just assumed that was these kinds of a caring and thoughtful thing to do,” Ms. Schneider explained. “That was the pretty moment when I understood that Sean was the gentleman I was going to marry.”
■ The couple were being married March 14 at the Vineyards at Aquebogue in Aquebogue, N.Y. Rabbi Beth H. Klafter officiated.
■ The bride, who graduated from Hunter School, is the daughter of Irene Schneider of Glenwood Landing and Dr. Steven J. Schneider of Albertson, N.Y. . The bride’s father is a pediatric neurosurgeon and co-chief of the division of pediatric neurosurgery at Cohen Children’s Healthcare Center in New Hyde Park, N.Y. He is also a partner in Extensive Island Neurosurgical Associates in New Hyde Park. Her mom is a senior bodily therapist at General public College 993Q for the New York Town Department of Education and learning in Floral Park, Queens. The bride is also the stepdaughter of Marcelo Aspesi, a Manhattan-dependent learn electrician.
■ The groom, who is the son of Patricia Corley and John J. Corley of Setauket, N.Y., graduated from Stony Brook College. The groom’s father is a companion in Krohmer-Corley Construction, a construction company based in Setauket. His mother, who is retired, was a college advice counselor at Mount Sinai Center University District in Mount Sinai, N.Y.